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October 31, 2005

Defrocked park molester

In 1995, the Episcopal Diocese of Connecticut defrocked Bruce Jacques for propositioning a 13 year-old boy. He allegedly offered the boy a blow job as a "confirmation gift"; when the story came out, he was defrocked and the church settled with the boy's family out of court.

In 2003, Jacques was hired as a fundraiser for the Robert Louis Stevenson School, a private school in Manhattan for underachieving students, many of whom seem to have a history of behavior problems. Troubled kids who have been rejected by many other authority figures and are searching for acceptance? A child molester's dream! A 13 year-old student at the school has just accused Jacques of molesting him in Central Park. It seems the school administrators never checked with the diocese about what prompted his career change.

Jacques has taken off since the cops were notified about the student's claim, and is now on the run.

[NY Post story]

October 21, 2005

UK teacher-student makeout sessions

Shelley White, 25, was a geography teacher in the UK. Earlier this year she got busted for kissing a 15 year-old male student on three occasion, and this week was found guilty of abuse of trust by sexual activity with a child. According to details revealed in the case, "on two occasions she put the boy in detention and kissed him in the classroom. Later on she sent him to a store cupboard to find some paperclips and kissed him again."

She is also said to have worn low-cut tops to class and bent down to let students see down her shirt, and, bizarrely, allowed students to lie on the floor when the weather was hot to let them look up her skirt. She denies this. After the first time she kissed her student, she is reported to have said, "I can't believe I have done that. That was so stupid. I have jeopardised everything."

But of course, she denies that she was the instigator of the episodes with her student, and claims that he was the aggressor and that she was the victim. The sassy judge said, "Shelley White, you have throughout this trial portrayed yourself as a victim. It's fair to say that you are a victim, but not a victim, as you put it, of your friends, the boy, and the press, but a victim of your own stupidity."

Since the spring, when the events of her case took place, White has married her boyfriend, who is also a teacher. Lucky guy.

[tx Cushie]

October 20, 2005

Wasn't This an Aerosmith Video?

The Sun, a publication almost - almost - as good as the New York Post reports that science teacher Cfyn Zachery Markwick-Day, 45, is facing jail time for sleeping with a 15-year old student. The couple met when Markwick-Day spotted his young friend in a school talent show and asked her to star in his "film." Along the way, the couple had sex in a hotel room he had reserved to "look for film locations."

But the story doesn't stop there. Apparently, this is a man who figures you shouldn't stop at one taboo when you can break them all. Why just have sex with a 15-year-old when you can also get her to dress up as a nurse? Or a nun? And the clincher? The part she was playing in the movie was - of course - his daughter.

Bronx janitor works late with 15 year-old

On Tuesday afternoon, a teacher at Jane Adams High School in the Bronx returned to her supposedly empty classroom at 3:45 to pick up her purse, and got an eyeful: Jessie Lozada, school aide and part-time janitor, with a 15 year-old female student, "engaged in a sex act." The Post says Lozada is 24, the Daily News says 22, so who knows. He was old enough to know better.

According to the interrupting teacher, Lozado and the teen scurried out of the room "just as she was putting her pants back on." Classy! The student later told police that she had had sex with Lozado five times over the past week.

Lozada was suspended from the school without pay, and charged with 5 counts of third-degree rape and endangering a child.

October 19, 2005

What happens after practice

Two stories today about school employees caught having sex with teenage girls they were coaching. Both men seem to have acknowledged their crimes, and have pleaded guilty.

Craig DeBaise, 43, was the girls' basketball coach at Bishop Machebeuf High School in Denver.

Craig DeBaise

In 1999, he had sex with a 16 year-old girl on the team, and for three months in 2000 had a number of encounters with a 17 year-old. About the 17 year-old, he said they had built a bond and that he was "falling in love with her." We can only hope the girl doesn't harbor any tender feelings for this sleazy looking creep. He pleaded guilty to only one count of sexual assault on a child by a person in a position of trust, a very apt legal category for Bad Love. He will be sentenced in December, and could get as little as two years.

Leonard Tyrone Alexander, 27, was a dance teacher and detention monitor at a charter school in Minneapolis.

Leonard Tyrone Alexander

He pleaded guilty to criminal sexual conduct with two girls, ages 12 and 14, who he taught in a hip-hop dance class. He admitted that he brought girls back to his apartment for extra dance practice, but really to have sex with them, on a few different occasions. The 14 year-old thought she was going back to his apartment to braid his hair. Leonard got nine years in prison. The charter school actually closed earlier this year. So much for idealistic notions of independently-managed public schools.

October 12, 2005

Bad lover? Or child molester?

The case of Georgianne Harrell, 24 year-old third grade teacher in Georgia, pushes the boundaries of even this inherently sick site. She was arrested this past May when she cut her wrists with a piece of broken glass in front of her students in the classroom; at the time there was some talk in the news of "suspicion of molesting two students."

Today she pleaded not guilty to molestation and reckless conduct. More details on what was going on over the past school year were also released. The AP article says, "Authorities also say she performed oral sex on a 9-year-old boy in her classroom, let students peek down her blouse and talked to some of the children about sexual matters. Between August 2004 and May, authorities claim, she abused a total of seven students."

This story raises some uncomfortable questions about the extreme abuse of power and the destructive behaviors that seriously delusional people are capable of. Had Harrell been a 10th grade teacher, the story would probably get a lot of smirks and raised eyebrows, as did Mary Kay LeTourneau's. But these were 9 year-olds. If a teacher is having sex with her students, at what student age does it change from child molestation to less serious misguided maniupulation? The age of consent? I suppose it's technically molestation if the student in question is underage, but even if the student is 16 (or whatever) the issues are essentially the same. It's abuse in all cases, it's just more horrible with pre-pubescent kids.

There are some creepy similarities between Georgianne Harrell and Bad Love Superstar Mary Kay Letourneau, and their inabilities to classify themselves as adults and not as kids. On a student website (no longer up) that she maintained while she was a student at Valdosta State, preparing for a career in early childhood education, Harrell already sounded like maybe not the ideal person to be molding young minds. A crime blog called The Dark Side helpfully posted some choice excerpts: "I am also bringing to the teaching profession an innate ability to attract the attention of children. The most important ability I possess is patience. It is by far the most important skill along with a desire to understand children. By making students and their needs the main focus of my classroom, they will value learning. By placing myself in their position, I can encourage them to achieve remarkable feats. With the right experiences, children can love school. They can feel that I am no different from them, because after all, I am still a child at heart." The Dark Side describes her site as having an overly-busy design and childish font, and generally looking like "unicorn puke."

Harrell also wrote "I strongly believe children are angels right here on earth," and about her early student-teaching experiences, "I taught a group of kindergarteners and a group of first graders French for a semester. I did better than I thought I would have. I inspired those children to want to learn more. I was able to touch those children."

She sure was. Ew.

Her self-destructive act in front of the very children she was molesting reminds me of the Brooklyn gym teacher who shot himself in the head when his ongoing sexual relationship with a teenage girl in his school was uncovered. (See previous Bad Love post). Perhaps some kind of reality intruded into Harrell's disturbed mind, and she reacted with extreme guilt. Unfortunately, her wrist-slashing surely traumatized even those kids in her class that she wasn't having sex with.

Spitzer fights chat room predators

NY Attorney General Eliot Spitzer and the Nebraska Attorney General have reached an agreement with Yahoo! regarding its chat rooms. From now on, Yahoo! says it will remove any user-created chat rooms that promote sex between adults and minors, and it will require all chat room users to be 18 or older. It's not really possible to keep underage kids from saying they are 18 to use chat rooms (and come on, is there anyone over 18 using chat rooms these days who isn't trying to have illicit sex?) but at least they're trying.

You might wonder how Yahoo! will be able to tell which user-created chat rooms promote sex between adults and minors. Well, some of the sample chat rooms that the Attorneys General took issue with have names like "girls 13 & up for much older men," "8-12 yo girls for older men," and my personal favorite, "teen girls for older fat men." Many of these were located within the "Schools and Education" and "Teen" chat categories.

In their investigation of these chat room, an undercover investigator posed as a 14-year-old and got 35 personal messages of a sexual nature over a single 25-minute period.


October 11, 2005

Pam Smart Speaks

Almost 15 years after (allegedly) seducing her teenage boyfriend into murdering her husband, Pam Smart sat down with MSNBC's Rita Cosby last week to reflect on the worst decision she's ever made - the affair with weaselly-moustached Billy Flynn that landed her in prison for life.

Despite her time served, Pam still maintains her innocence, insisting that she never asked Flynn to kill Greg Smart. In a way, you have to admire her gumption. Even though every one of her appeals has been rejected, and she will almost certainly spend her life behind bars, Smart has never admitted to planning the murder. Not only that, but she bristles when people refer to her as a teacher, insisting that she was a "media coordinator" - a role that she feels makes her sexual relationship with a 15-year-old student much more palatable.

Certainly, the recent release of accomplice Ray Fowler - and the knowledge that all four of the teenage killers will eventually be freed while she remains in prison - must be a hard pill to swallow.

But all these years later, has she learned anything from the experience?

"What people can learn from me... I guess..when your head is telling you something's wrong, that your head is right. Your head is usually right."

Pam Smart in cuffs

That's right, Pam. That's absolutely right.


October 01, 2005

Hot for Teacher

September was a particularly hot month -- hot for teacher, that is. This month in Teacher Sex:

  • Former NY Catholic high school teacher Sandra "Beth" Geisel pleads guilty to sex with a 16-year old boy; may have also had sex with his two friends.
  • A Florida court will not allow revealing pictures of Mary Kaywanna-be Debra Lafave, who was arrested last year for sex with a 14-year-old, to be admitted as evidence. Her lawyer is arguing she was "legally insane" when she engaged in sexual misconduct in a car with her beau, while his 15-year old friend drove them around.
  • The family of a 15-year old New Jersey boy is suing phys. ed/health teacher/seductress Traci Tapp and the school district that they claim knew about their affair.
  • 31-year-old high school teacher Amber Jennings, who e-mailed naked pictures of herself to a student, claims that the 16-year-old was not a victim. The proof? He videotaped himself having sex with her. It gets better: during a psychiatric evaluation, she told the doctor her relationship with her husband was "somewhat strained as of late." And better: she's writing a book about it.

I can't even imagine what October's going to be like.

Orange County Trend Watch

Teen drama has always been a great place for trend-spotting, and no show fills that need like Fox's The OC. So, why was I unsuprised to see that in addition to its hip soundtrack, this week's episode featured some epic Bad Love between mean but sexy Dean Hess (who formerly engaged in some other questionable sexual encounters in Welcome to the Dollhouse and The L Word) and Harbor High School Social Chair Taylor Townsend? Not only was I not surprised, I thought, why the hell has it taken three seasons? And how appropriate that his title is "Dean of Discipline"?

Of course, in the real life OC teachers don't wait that long. Why, just two days ago Orange County middle-school teacher Sarah Bench-Salorio pleaded guilty to "lewd acts" with three 13-year old boys - one of whom she began an affair with when he was 11. She will be sentenced in November.

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